Introvert dating High Point, I'm Point High female introvert wants dating
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How old am I: 30
What is my ethnicity: I was born in Peru
I can speak: Spanish
What is my body type: My figure features is slim
What I like to drink: White wine
I like to listen: Reggae
In my spare time I love: Swimming
My tattoo: I don't have tattoos
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My best friend in high school was a pretty, outgoing, talkative extrovert. Not only did she have gorgeous skin, a cute figure, and shiny brown hair that fell practically to her bottom, she was also flirtatious, opinionated, and quick to laugh. Boys were irresistibly drawn to her, and it seemed to me that she could get the adoring attention of anyone she wanted.
At parties, she was the center of attention, the one laughing the loudest and flirting the hardest, and enrapturing everyone she met. In social situations, I felt dumpy, clumsy, and dull next to her.
This realization forced me to recast my whole high school experience and, to an extent, my own self-image in a different light. A softer one. Remember how your mom used to tell you that if you just be yourself, the right person will come along?
For what is probably not the first time, your mother was right. The reality is that you are not competing with extroverts for attention. Extroverts and introverts are apples and oranges.
Extroverts sparkle—introverts glow. Extroverts are fireworks—introverts are a fire in the hearth.
Use these strategies to ease out of your comfort zone and into the relationship you want.
Extroverts attract people who like razzle-dazzle—introverts attract people who want to bask in their warmth. People are drawn to others who are comfortable in their own skin, which for you means knowing yourself and liking who you are. My husband still brings up the very sexy top I wore to the party where he finally asked me out.
It was the first and only time I ever wore that thing. It was a blouse for an exhibitionist, not an introvert. Just because you want to the party does not mean you are required to stay until the last drunk passes out. The funny thing about small talk is that hardly anyone really loves it. Trying to behave like an extrovert while desperately wanting something else to happen was not fair to my friendly extroverts.
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